2101 egocentric
Apparently Matthew doesn't like the Beckhams.
But Renly was not surprised at all. Strictly speaking, Matthew didn't like most...human beings - as a lawyer, he had seen too much ugliness and evil, and had also seen too many ways of using order and law to seek personal gain. Having seen too much of the depravity and filth of human nature, plus taking philosophy as an elective in high school, Matthew is a pessimist. It is difficult for him to look at the tragedies in real life with a positive attitude..
Renly couldn't blame Matthew. In fact, this was also the reason why Matthew became a lawyer. Renly liked Matthew like this. He hoped that Matthew could continue to stick to his heart..
At this time, feeling the calmness deep in Matthew's eyes, Lan Kai's smile bloomed, and he looked at the Beckhams naturally and calmly, "Ren Li, please call me Ren Li." Well, after all, I live in Hollywood and there's no way I can ask them to abide by British rules, right, Mr. Beckham, Mrs. Beckham?？”
The Beckhams have both lived in Los Angeles for a long time, and their careers are closely linked to the United States. When Renly calls them by their honorifics, the humor seeps through - in the United States, very few people I would call them this because it is too formal, especially in Los Angeles, which advocates freedom and spontaneity..
“Maybe they should set a title for the EGOT winners, just like the knights after the royal conferment." Victoria showed a smile and said with a bright face, "At least, you have won the respect of professionals, then, You should also win corresponding rewards.”
It can be noticed from the content of her words that Victoria still remained tense, her smile could not reach her eyes, and the content of her words was still flattering and flattering - more importantly, her words revealed her intention to call "Sir" Obsession, David cannot be promoted to the level of the Royal Medal. This should be a worry for the Beckhams, and it has even reached the level of obsession. Even if it is unintentional, it is still unavoidable..
Renly could detect Matthew's gaze, which obviously couldn't escape Matthew's sense of smell..
Renly didn't care, and met Victoria's gaze with a smile, "I don't think they have such a consciousness. Even doctors can't be called doctors, as if these don't mean anything to them, so America is America. It is another land after all.”
“Haha." David and Victoria both laughed..
Putting aside royal honors for the time being, in the European social and cultural system, titles are a very important thing. "Miss", "Ms." and "Mrs." are absolutely indispensable, and honorific titles such as doctor and professor It also exists objectively, and high intellectuals are given a corresponding status; but in the United States, related situations also exist, but they are not truly recognized, and social culture does not pay attention to them..
The simplest and most intuitive example is that when buying air tickets or train tickets in Europe, the title option is "Doctor". Occasionally, you can even get additional discounts; Wimbledon is the only tennis tournament that still retains "Doctor". "Mr.", "Ms.", "Mrs." and other competitions with different honorifics plus surnames, while other events are directly addressed by surnames, omitting the "complicated" prefixes.
Renly's little joke immediately resonated with the Beckhams..
“Today's auction was really exciting. I tried to buy guitars and music scores, but unfortunately, I still couldn't become the final owner." Thanks to Renly's teasing, David relaxed a little and spoke. He seemed much more comfortable and took the initiative to speak..
In the early years, when David and Victoria were passionately in love, Victoria began to transform David one after another, starting from hair style to styling, including one small detail, which was David's voice..
If the "heartthrob" David Beckham has an obvious shortcoming, it is that his voice is slightly flat, sandy, and occasionally slightly sharp. It does not fit the image of a mature and charming man. He is completely like a duck male in the period of youthful voice change. This made Victoria very dissatisfied, but other parts could be modified, but the voice could not be modified. So, Victoria came up with a solution, trying to make David not speak as much as possible, but to smile, even in media interviews. Try to answer as clearly and concisely as possible.
All in all, Victoria re-formulated a plan for David inside and out, and the final result also proved Victoria's intelligence and wisdom..
Such a "ban/ban" was not lifted until David became truly famous all over the world, but David still retained his habit of rarely attending talk shows or interview shows to avoid exposing himself; only when he was emotionally nervous or excited , will be exposed inadvertently.
Obviously, high-class parties are also "forbidden" occasions. In front of the real nobles and elites, David does not want to reveal the details, and usually talks more cautiously; but Renly's spring-like smile made David relax. Be careful, long sentences just pop out like this.
Because Renly noticed Victoria's right hand making a small movement on David's waist. Although it was hidden, it was still caught. He then recalled this small detail, and the smile on his face couldn't help but lighten up. "Understandably, I also tried to snap up high-heeled shoes designed by Victoria, but unfortunately, I failed in the end. I have now begun to wonder whether I will regret it when I turn around and leave..”
“Wow! Victoria's expression brightened obviously, "I've heard of it before. Mr. Renly... has his own unique insights into fashion. It's definitely an honor for me to be recognized. Unfortunately, I don't design men's clothing. Otherwise we should be able to have a common topic.”
A few simple words can reveal many details：
First of all, in the English context, "Mr." is placed first. It can be seen from Victoria's use of the title that she still has not relaxed..
Secondly, in the subsequent discourse, the core of the entire discourse is "self", and the starting point and ending point are Victoria herself. This is her comfort zone..
Many times, words and deeds are the best mirrors. They can reflect too many things that are unintentional and uncontrollable. Therefore, the top element of aristocratic social interaction is: observe, observe carefully, as long as you calm down and observe carefully, You can gain something.
“But you designed David, and it’s a perfect work.” Renly’s response is always just right, a little humorous, a little playful and a little wise. Since Victoria wants to start the conversation with herself as the centerpiece, Renly is also happy to focus on it. Move away from yourself, win-win.
Sure enough, both David and Victoria burst out laughing..
The Beckhams paused for a moment, and finally it was Victoria who spoke, "Just now, you auctioned two paintings. Apart from music and performance, are you also interested in painting?"？”
“Hobby." Renly did not talk too much about himself, but immediately dropped the topic, "It seems that you are also interested in painting in your spare time? I mean, outside of fashion？”
“The primary stage." Victoria's brows became happy..
“You went to see that art exhibition last time, and you still couldn’t forget it after you returned home.” David took the initiative to “break the news” and then said to Renly, “You should talk to her in depth, she always feels that she has nothing in common with me. But I don't feel it, and it's not my fault, is it?？”
Victoria noticed Renly's gaze and took the initiative to explain, "We went to an art exhibition together. He didn't pay attention the whole time, as if he was drifting outside the universe. Then I was very lonely, standing there admiring it alone. After returning home, the inspiration from the exhibition came flooding out. I tried to discuss it with him, but he had no idea what was going on there, and I didn’t know what to do..”
“The point is that you like it." Renly said with a smile. He could detect Matthew's gaze coming towards him again, and the subtext seemed to say：
“See, I told you. They are the center of the conversation from beginning to end, and it makes no sense at all..”
But Renly didn't mind. In fact, he completely understood..
If the conversation centers on Renly, the Beckhams will be very worried that they can't keep up and accidentally reveal their true identity, which would be embarrassing; on the other hand, if they center the conversation on themselves, they can take the initiative to bring up those things. Topics, topics that "seem to be on Renly's level and that Renly would be interested in", so you can't go wrong.
It’s a conversational skill, and a very smart one—if they use it properly..
Unfortunately, the content they discussed was still at the primary stage. Even if they tried their best, they still could not make up for the gap in background. Of course, today was a charity auction, not a private banquet for nobles, so the content of the conversation was relatively relaxed and simple. It doesn't matter.
Renly always remained patient, but he also knew what Matthew meant - this conversation may not have an end in sight, and someone must stop it early..
“If we have the opportunity in the future, we can go to the art gallery to appreciate it together and see if our artistic tastes match." After Victoria finished another conversation, Renly said with a smile, and then spoke directly without waiting for an answer. Go on, "As for now, I need to say sorry. There is a guest there. I have to go up and say hello. Please forgive me for my rudeness.".”
Proper in advance and retreat, humble and courteous, Renly's performance is impossible to criticize..
Then, David and Victoria followed Renly's gaze and understood immediately. They did not pursue any further questions and had no doubts. They nodded repeatedly to express their understanding..
“Of course, of course." David said.
Victoria was more perceptive, "...that's the one……？”
Although there is no beginning or end, the words hint at the mysterious No. 43. If the person who comes is him, then everything can be explained..
Renly didn't answer, just smiled and said, "Please forgive me for leaving." Then, he nodded towards Matthew, and the two of them walked away together, leaving the Beckhams behind..
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